Friday, May 21, 2021

What was mundane is now special?


What have we missed? 

 

Today, as it rained and I watched it at home, nostalgia took over as I could notice the train siren blaring in the background.  I thought what I missed the most. Among the innumerable things I used to do without considering it a privilege, I miss taking the carefree, long-distance train journeys. And that too the ones in 3-tier sleeper bogie. 

 

Let me try to bring it all together.  Spending almost all of my life in the fertile plains of Uttar Pradesh until my MBA from Hyderabad, I had taken an overnight train journey to Hyderabad only once. An overnight journey meant I would get to see a different landscape in my country. In the rainy season of the year 1999, I embarked upon a journey to Hyderabad not knowing that this would become so frequent and for so long that it would become a routine soon.

 

As the train would leave the great Indian fertile plains and enter Jhansi, the Bundelkhand landscape would remind of Jhansi ki Rani. This would also be a train station where you would get the last flavours of Uttar Pradesh. The train would then enter the deccan plateau, the soil colour would turn to red, high river bridges over serpentine and thin rivers exposing the rocky river beds. The tunnels and the train track passing through the midst of green hills would remind of the Dacoits of Chambal and train chase sequence from the blockbuster movie - Sholay.

 

The train rolls into Bhopal of the famous Soorma Bhopali and you get a different aroma from the food stalls as the vendors and passengers would wear a different accent, not as dramatic as that of Soorma Bhopali. You would know that the next stop where one gets good North or Central Indian cuisine would be at Itarsi - another 4-5 hours further.

 

If you were already asleep as the train passed through the quiet and past midnight stop at Itarsi, you would be awakened by the early morning hustle of tea vendors at Sewagram. Thoughts of Gandhi ji at a minimalistic railway platform that's almost all green. The unoccupied benches on the open platform would be moist or rain-drenched after a drizzle, often littered with flowers. The kulhad waali chai would be the last delight passed on to you through the rails of the window for a few coins that you were happy to shell out. Cameras were rare and never thought of capturing those mornings on something virtual. Thankfully, it has stayed as fresh as the therapeutic effect of the aromatic tea, beautifully etched on my mind.

 


And then, a chat with a buddy, on the bogie door, at times enough to have 2 people sit at the doorstep, chatting up as the train changed across tracks giving out some memorable musical notes for those even without the knowledge of it all.

 

Never thought it as rare and as priceless as our dreams about our future back then. Never taking things as normal, routine or mundane. Everything we do is special.

 

Saturday, July 06, 2019

Judging others


God gave us the capability to judge to be able to discern truth from falsehood and good from bad before we make important decisions in life. As Humans, we started judging fellow human beings more than our own choices. The onus of judging people should be left along to God's discretion. We are nowhere in between.



Saturday, June 29, 2019

A new odyssey



कभी अकेले, नदी किनारे, खुद के साथ  बैठा जाए
कभी खुद से, अपने दिल की बातें की जाएँ
सूरज, पानी, हवा, आसमान और चिड़ियों की बातें सुनी जाएँ
क्या पता कोई नया राज़ खुले, एक नयी राह मिल जाए
 ~ क़ैस मुजीब

Someday, by the riverside, you must sit with just yourself by your side
Someday, you must have a heart-to-heart conversation with your soul

Listen to the nature: the sun, the sounds of water, the sky and the birds
Who knows what secrets unfold, what marks the onset of a new odyssey

Sunday, August 13, 2017

Is Anonymity back in vogue?



Bollywood thriller movies in 70s and 80s often had a mysterious character who used to send life-saving information to police or the main protagonists, signing it as "Aap ka hamdard, ek dost" (your well-wisher, a friend).

Fast forward to the internet age, there were anonymous identities sending messages on chat or leaving anonymous comments on blogs. I am not sure about others but it used to be quite irritating to me after a few exchanges. The discomfort of shooting in the dark while the other person had all the fun concealing the identity yet saying things only those that know you well could say. Slowly, the social platforms on the web brought in checks to minimize anonymous identities.

Talk of today, a service that allows people to send anonymous messages in becoming viral by each passing hour. Blame it on your ignorance if you don't know about it yet. It's called SARAHAH... It is tempting indeed especially when one sees people posting the anonymous messages they received on this new app, up on their Facebook walls. Is this just a new fad or a game changer? There are people who are quickly getting on with the new and then there are skeptics who are holding back.

Today, when people want to trace the calls made on their mobile phones, how can they not get preoccupied with the senders of these messages? Could this tool be just one that glamorize those shady tricks of pestering people with rants, trolls and the ilk? Who would want to throw open such a channel and wait for some excitement?

The big question: Has the erstwhile victim turned into the monster hunter? Or is that the boredom that is engulfing the social media - the craving for something new? Whatever it may be but the possibilities are limitless for stalkers, trollers, and well... the secret admirers. My advice is: Judge it well before you jump in...

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Tuesday, May 27, 2014

Inspiring lines from Javed Akhtar



Zindagi Hai To Khwaab Hain,
Khwaab Hain To Manzilein Hain,

Manzilein Hain To Faasle Hain,
Faasle Hain To Raaste Hain,
Raaste Hain To Mushkilein Hain,
Mushkilein Hain To Hausla Hai,

Hausla Hai To Vishwas Hai,
Vishwas Hai To Jeet Hai...

Kyunki Fighter...

Self-Composed Urdu Couplets



Phir un sunsaan si galiyon mein nikal padey us gumshuda se khwaab ki talaash mein;
Naam pata hai na rasta us khwaab ka, bas dhundlati hui kuch tasvirein hain ankhon mein

Qadmon ke kuch hain nishan zameen par aur kuchh armaan basey hain seeney mein;
Jaane kab poora hoga ye safar bas nikal pade hain us gumshuda se khwaab ki talaash mein

April 2012
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yahan har bashar ka kuch mukhtalif sa falsafa-e-zindagi hai
koi jadon ki gehrai chahta hai to koi udaan ki soch rakhta hai

koi chahta hai banana sang-e-murmur ke kasheeda makaan
to koi umr khanabadoshi mein guzaarne ka khayal rakhta hai

koi teer kamaan se ja nikal kahin duur maqaam banata hai
koi tarkash ko aabad rakhne ka wohi purana mizaaj rakhta hai

koi kehta hai badalti fiza mein aa gaya waqt unwaan badalne ka
koi dhun phir wohi dohraane ke iraade mazboot rakhta hai

koi kehta hai ki tez hawaaon mein jhuk jana hai munasib
koi toot janey ke anjaam ko he dil ke qareeb rakhta hai

mukhtalif hon jaayen raaste kitne bhi ye jaan lo Qais
Har raasta aakhir mein bas ek he muqaam ka pata rakhta hai

26-May-2014

Management Quotes



Feedback is old school, Outstanding Leaders "FeedForward" ~ Marshall Goldsmith

The greatest pleasure in life is in doing what people say you cannot do.
~ Walther Bagehot

“The leader’s main job is to make themselves obsolete.” ~ Lao Tsu

'' What is man management? That one must behave naturally with any human being.'' ~ Russi Mody

Qaisism: 1:14 Admit one's faults



To be able to realize, admit one's mistakes and then, make efforts to undo the harm, requires God's blessings and some courage.

Qaisism: 1:13 Change



It often takes more courage to CHANGE one's opinion than to stick to it.